Katie July 17, 2012, 9:42 am
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let your ex glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. We have done absolutely nothing to you. But thats just anyone I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my method to make an effort to speak to her, but if she sets the record right aided by the gf, ideally she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a concern into the man being the matter, which will be what’s going on.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july
As well as, exactly exactly exactly what would you want to bet that he’s feeding their brand new gf the complete “crazy ex” routine to spell out why they talk most of the time? And was operating into one another actually just a coincidence?
Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am
I’m able to realise why you’d believe means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We see the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe perhaps not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a handle on her own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls need not be buddies at all. It could you need to be yet another connect to the man when it comes to LW, who’s wanting to cut psychological ties.
Katie July 17, 2012, 9:54 am
Thats an excellent point for sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I accustomed be buddies using this number of dudes whom accustomed have such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then it ended up being realised by me ended up beingn’t the girls, its the inventors. Therefore the girls had been all people that are just normal, you understand, desired to understand if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:04 am
Yea. Its love, when that occurs enough times- what is the denominator that is common? YOU MIGHT BE!!
I do feel harmful to this GF that is new. She deserves to possess a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves a man who isnt hung through to his ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless longs for her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW due to the fact man is telling her a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:09 am
Personally I think bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its hard being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but thats really why a lot of people go into all of them with their eyes spacious. Oh and the man has to“ stop droppingBut i’ve a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real means the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He wishes the LW become like “well I don’t care if you do have a GF, i am going to nevertheless blow you” or “Dump that skank, and get back to me”
Katie 17, 2012, 10:27 am july
Yea, its like whenever i was in senior high school and me personally and my boyfriend would split up every single other week, in which he would “accidently” we would fight and get back together text me or something just so.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight to get straight right back together”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am
I’ve said right here a great deal, if the man whips out of the word that is“crazy operate one other method. I understand therefore a lot of men whom utilize that word to hide due to their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why individuals would phone some body crazy into the place that is first. I recently state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact which you place a “crazy” label upon it, makes me think you might be the one which loves to stir the muck.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Additionally, if you should be prepared to phone some body crazy, wouldn’t which means that you will be kinda crazy also?
Rilooyah 17, 2012, 4:44 pm july
Therefore real! As soon as the” that is“crazy away, Im operating one other method. I believe it had been stated above- once you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common constantly YOU, friend.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july
The truth is, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely could be upset about any of it too, and yet she will continue to respond to this dudes calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all of this bull shit.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july
Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk for this woman since your just planning to cause drama. You need to just understand he’s not your boyfriend as well as that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a sugar daddy for me com bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am
This is certainly a great point, you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.
So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.
Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july
Amen bestie – we trust you about talking towards the gf. That knows just just exactly what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their chatting so frequently, but whilst the relationship is none of the company, the truth that the LW in addition to girlfriend that is new met now i believe enables the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She does not fundamentally need to state, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend was saying that is___ in my experience and he’s the one calling, in which he said you’re ok with this specific, ” just “Hey, I’m so sorry that went defectively, I happened to be underneath the impression you’re ok with your being buddies, but i recently recognized I’m maybe perhaps not ok with your being friends either, therefore it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july
I’dn’t keep in touch with the gf about it. If We were dating some body for 2 months the very last thing i might wish is the ex of three years reaching off to me personally. And simply to inform you which you respect her relationship? I might think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing head games. Just simply Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t would you like to hear from him for some time, then keep them alone. Really they probably won’t work-out because you will be nevertheless within the photo (which doesn’t do great things for a brand new relationship), but allow them work that out on their own.
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july
Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everybody else pretends they can be “mature” and remain buddies with exes and stay completely okay if your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july